7 Tips for Managing Conflict in Marriage

Have you ever considered the profound impact our conflict resolution skills have on our little ones? That’s exactly what we tackle in this episode. Join me, Jordan Langdon, as I uncover seven key tips to address marital disagreements in a constructive manner, especially when tiny ears are around. I dive straight into the transformative power of "I-statements" and respectful communication, sharing a personal story to bring this point home. You'll learn how steering clear of the blame game can not only mend fences with your partner but also impart crucial life lessons to your children, preparing them for a future of healthy relationships.

Tension in the air can be as easy to spread as a yawn, but resolving it doesn't have to be a battle. With insights from previous podcast guest Heather Younger's expertise, this episode explores strategies to break the negative cycle of blame and embrace the art of active listening. I also reveal my secret weapon, the "24-hour rule," that keeps my marriage free from lingering resentments. You'll get a front-row seat to how timely and focused communication can work wonders for any relationship. It's a blend of personal anecdotes and professional wisdom that will leave you equipped to face conflicts with a newfound grace and understanding.

We wrap things up by stitching together the fabric of effective conflict management strategies, ensuring these are lessons that resonate well beyond our personal lives. I highlight how being present, assuming good intentions, and knowing when to let things go can not only save your sanity but also model resilience and empathy for our children.
By the end of this episode, you'll be ready to navigate the tricky waters of disagreement with a compass that always points towards unity and positivity. So, if you’re committed to raising emotionally intelligent individuals and strengthening your marriage, this is one conversation you won't want to miss. Remember to pass on these invaluable tips and join our family of listeners by subscribing for even more enriching episodes.


  • Express your thoughts and feelings directly and respectfully
  • Avoid blaming your partner and take responsibility for your own actions
  • Stay focused on one issue at a time
  • Be an active listener and seek to understand your partner's perspective
  • Suspend judgment and assume your partner has good intentions
  • Don't sweat the small stuff and prioritize what truly matters
  • Model healthy conflict resolution for your children
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