Expert Advice: Protecting Your Child From Sexual Abuse with Eli Harwood, LPC

Sexual abuse, particularly involving children, is a horrifying reality that we must actively work to prevent. This was the core of our discussion in the latest podcast episode with Eli Harwood, an expert in trauma healing with 17 years of experience.

One of the main points highlighted by Harwood is the power of knowledge in protecting our children. She stressed the importance of educating children about their own bodies and personal boundaries. In our conversation, she underscored the need for correct language usage and safe spaces for kids to voice their concerns or experiences without fear.

Using anatomically correct language from an early age not only empowers children but also signals to potential predators that the child is likely to report abuse. In addition, setting clear body safety rules and reinforcing them regularly can go a long way in preventing sexual abuse.

Another topic we explored in-depth is the concept of sibling sexual abuse. This is a sensitive subject that is not often discussed but is essential to address. Understanding how to effectively manage such situations, ensuring the safety of the victim, and offering appropriate support is crucial. Professional help and a supportive community play a significant role in the healing process.

In our discussion, Harwood also emphasized the role of secure attachment in preventing abuse. She highlighted the importance of open dialogue about body safety, equipping children with the right information and resources, and creating a safe space for children to talk about their bodies and any potential issues that may arise. As parents, we are the first line of defense for our kids, and our impact can be monumental.

One of the crucial steps in protecting children from sexual abuse is having age-appropriate conversations with them about the subject. It is vital to have a level of solemnness when talking to kids about this topic and provide them with an action plan in case they feel unsafe.

In the event of a child disclosing abuse, it is important to respond with belief and acceptance. We must be prepared to intervene to keep them safe and avoid making promises that we can't keep. It is also crucial not to use language that makes the child feel like they have to protect the abuser.

As we wrapped up our conversation, Harwood highlighted the importance of creating a secure attachment with our children to protect them from sexual abuse. She stressed the need to make body safety a common topic of conversation and provide our children with a safe space to talk about their experiences.

The podcast episode provided an extensive exploration of a deeply crucial topic - child sexual abuse. It equipped listeners with knowledge, resources, and strategies to safeguard their children. As parents and caregivers, we have a monumental role in creating safer spaces for our children. Let's use this knowledge to empower our children and protect them from the unthinkable.